I know two people who backstab each other a lot. They claim to be friends but I know their not. No true friend would backstab constantly. I am still friends with one of them but the other one I don't consider a friend anymore for that exact reason. All they do is complain non-stop about each other and backstab consistantly. They tell me everything which is awkward.
The main thing they talk about is how negative the other person is. Which is actually true but they are being hypocrites since they are both very negative and both complain a lot, yet they get mad when the other person complains.
I am still friends with the girl but not as close to her. The guy is way worse and even though he still talks to me, I do not consider him a friend anymore. They have also talked about me. Mostly the guy. They got mad at me for visiting them and called me clingy even after they said beforehand that they wanted me to visit. I don't visit very often. Becoming more rare now
I am just so sick of it and wish they would stop. Should I just tell them both to stop? They both know that each other talks about the other person behind their back so I do not get why they are still friends other than the possibility that they are friends out of boredom since they have no one else to be around.
Just wondered if I should just tell them to stop or ignore them. I feel like they are probably not good friends to me either since I know they have talked about me. Just want to know what I should do. I know what they are doing is wrong, and they are definitely not true friends. Just wish they would stop and maybe even seek out new friends. Should I cut them out as well?
It is almost like they cannot accept responsibility and won't just talk about it. I find it very alarming that they do that stuff, yet still choose to hang out with each other. I already emotionally detached myself from the guy and very close to with the girl. Basically everything they backstab each other, they do the same themselves. I feel like it is a personality thing. Like their personalities are so similar in a negative way that they are not compatible.
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