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Originally Posted by Artchic528
I'm pretty worked up right now. I was in a chat where I was the only girl and the guys were all saying how superior Asian women were in looks to any other ethnicity and it pissed me off.
I basically got so upset that I stormed out of the chat. Now I need some ideas of how to calm myself down.
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Sorry to hear that. I used to be quite sensitive to stuff that was said in chatrooms too. Just remember this, a lot of young guys, and even some older ones can be really stupid and annoying. And insensitive as well. They're not worth your time. That one guy was lying to you. To hell with guys like that.
Most guys do have a certain type that they're attracted to just like us women have our preferences. It doesn't make it bad or wrong. Just remember that it's not personal. It doesn't mean that you're not attractive or inferior. Some guys don't even like Asian women.
Some guys do of course. Everyone is different. It's hard not to take some things personally when you're sensitive, especially when you're young as you seem to be (It sounds like you are). If you don't like what someone says, then you can tell them that what was said is wrong, upsetting, etc...but if that's just their opinion, there probably isn't much you can do to change it as most people tend to be set in their beliefs and opinions.
As long as they're not being personally rude or disrespectful, just let it go. Sometimes there will be people out there that will deliberately say and do things to upset other people in order to get a reaction out of them. I don't know why they do it, but IMHO, there is something wrong with people like that. The internet is full of trolls and people like that.
Even if they aren't trolls, there are a lot of idiots on here for sure. Just ignore them and block them if they upset you that much. And remember to not take some people on here to seriously. A lot of guys and people in general go on here to mess with people. Like I said, there are a lot of trolls and idiots on here. Don't feed the trolls or give stupid people the attention they so desperately want and need.
Focus on kind honest guys who won't lie to you and try to make your feel insecure about yourself. You'll be so much happier if you focus on the people that like you for you instead of fuming about some clown who likes to play stupid games.