I don't like being cradled when I cry I was always someone who needed to be alone when I got upset when my mother tried to hug me it made me feel worse. I never really knew why I felt that way it just didn't feel okay. So I don't like it when guys try to comfort me when I am sad so when a friend said I wanted his sympathy I couldn't ever get it out of my mind. He has to be crazy me want sympathy? I could never cope with someone trying to hug me when I was sad so why would I accept his sympathy. It's funny because the thing I reject the most is the thing I long for the most hugs from men when I cry. It is crazy though that when they try and hug me I can't help but pull away and that would make my dad angry. It is the way I am so don't hug me when I am sad I feel a million times worse. I have to process these feelings on my own it is how I am...