I have never dated and am in my first and last relationship. Have kissed two guys other than my husband (before I got together with him) but those were not dates or boyfriends and do not count.

I had a weird dream about this discussion a couple of hours ago. Somebody totally unknown responded to my question about how to know if it is a date and told me about the International Dating Record which keeps track of all dates of all people everywhere. So I went to where it was kept and found the record - a huge, huge book - and saw that every dinner and drinks and movie visit and other social activity I'd ever had with one man, just the two of us, except for H, was included there. It was rather uncomfortable and stressful, I had to motivate for each entry why it was not a date to have it erased, and then the marks did not quite disappear from the book, and then I got angry because no nights out with one other woman were included, and then I panicked because I feared they would start adding those.... gah! It is kind of funny really.