Not trivial! I've been back on the internet for about two weeks and couldn't wait to find a good forum. I wasn't having any luck and finally went into a yahoo chat that was supposed to be support for sexual abuse survivors. It took awhile to find someone to talk to and then when I did we were discussing ways that she gets herself to feel "frisky". Long story short we ended up talking about female things and this guy sends a message that 'shouldn't we discuss in private'. i was like, uh, this is a support chat. that's the kind of stuff we want to talk about etc. he finally backed off, got mad and left the room. it wasn't that serious, but i was so dissapointed that the only chatroom i found didn't have much discussing. luckily i've stayed in touch with the girl i was talking to and she's been extremely helpful. then i found this place.

i think what it boils down to is that you're searching for something supportive, and the forum on yahoo used to be until this chic started causing problems. I agree with sky, don't feed her fire. you don't need to be submitted to abuse in a support forum. see if they have an ignore option or mods like sky said. If it keeps bugging you, it may be time to leave that forum. only do what's good for you! that's the important part. =)