PS. What's wrong with older women? I'm 60 next month and there is s woman at a church jumble/rummage sale I go to, though I'm not religious (I don't know what you call them in the US) who I talk to. I thought she was 60 something but last week she said she was 73. I wouldn't have thought that. She said 'does that put you off me'. I said 'not really, age is just a number' (unless you're a 60 year old looking for 20 year old). She is chatty, like me, bright and maybe I'll see if she wants to do something. She said she wouldn't mind joining me on one of my days out in London.