My self esteem takes a hit these days. I'm aging and all the fun that comes with that (wrinkles and grey hair and aches) and I've gained up to my highest weight ever. Most of my work clothes no longer fit. Shopping is a real eye opener. I am a fashion terrorist anyway, but I'm lucky if I can find something that's a neutral solid color appropriate for business casual dress code in my size. Either I'm fatter than the rest of the population, or they wear clothing snugger than I'm comfortable with. I did get a few tops, no luck for bottoms, and I'm frustrated and so done with shopping!