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Originally Posted by Fizzyo
Hi lelouch,
I'm sorry you're feeling uncomfortable with these people. It's really hard to feel like you don't really fit in. I'm a bit like that, I often feel people only talk to me because I'm around.
I think many people feel like that and often people do only talk to others because they're in the same group.
I try not to let feeling the odd one out stop me from doing something fun or that I'm into. Eventually I have found a good friend who we support each other on equal terms, beyond that I try to make the most of the company of acquaintances but try not to worry that it's usually no more than that.
Many people are thoughtless more than vindictive. They are so wrapped up in themselves and their own insecurities they don't think how their behaviour affects others.
I hope you can keep doing the things you enjoy, at least it gets you out of the house which gives more opportunity to meet someone you will relate to more easily.
Good luck, you have shown yourself to be a strong person. Be kind to yourself.
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That's how I feel too. I always feel like people just talk to me anymore cause I'm there. I find I'm almost always the one contacting people first and very seldom do people invite me to big events or to do anything really. I get left out of nearly everything and I'm not going to invite myself at that point. Even just more recently I asked a friend of mine if she was still going to comic con in Philly and if I could still come and she said if I want to, but I have to go separate cause there isn't enough room in her car. Like why would that make me want to go? Obviously I'm not wanted, so why bother. If someone wants you there they'll make it known and make it work. Going with someone and just meeting someone are very different to me. I don't think I can consider most of these people friends at all anymore. Friendly acquaintances and hang out buddies maybe, but that's it. Luckily I have a couple real friends who have stuck with me for a really long time. Guess that's all I really have. Oh well. And I agree that people are more thoughtless than actually intending to do harm, but the harm is still done. People need to think more about how their actions and words affect others. I don't think this group of mine even realizes how much they've pushed me away. Anyway thank you for your reply. I just had to let a little more out. This kind of stuff just keeps happening and I'm really trying right now to control my anger and depression more than I used to, but life right now is really making it difficult.