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May 01, 2016, 09:33 PM
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I think it's okay to remember those few good times with her. I think it's good to forgive those who passed their mistakes and remember them for their good qualities. I don't mean you shouldn't acknowledge that they may have hurt you or anything of that sort, but you said you were second guessing yourself because you were remembering good times with her.
My grandmother recently died and she did terrible things to my mother and to myself. I do remember some good times with her though, and while I'm processing the bad things she did, I'm also trying to forgive her for them so I can move on.
I'm rambling, but I just wanted to support you in your process of grief and let you know that there is no right way to grieve. And there's no right or wrong way to feel about it. However you feel is just how you feel.
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