In my younger years .LOL Before children and Family. I dated a abbusive guy who drank and hurt me. It was nothing for him to shoot his gun at my car as I was driving away. I like to forget that part of my life ever happened. I went with him close to 10 years.
In fact most times I do forget. Or put it to the back of my thoughts.
I am sorry for your hurt.

As far as OJ goes...............I am happy hes in Jail...........