When we srarted therapy. T wasnt sitting waiting for us to turn up in their lives so they could share their lifes with us.
They had a skill that we as clients needed/wanted.

Why suddenly does that change to us needing them to self disclose?

That's something I've thought about.

Over the years though, we have discussed things we both like.

But sometimes I think about the desire to know. But I'm not the only client. Imagine every client with that desire. It becomes Less important when I think about it that way. Like pups all fighting for mothers milk.

Sorry, just my thoughts over the years on this.