My T is a complete blank slate she even works under her maiden name rather than her married name. I only know this because I went to great lengths to look her up on Facebook and although her profile is very private her husband's is not. I feel bad about invading her privacy like that but I just miss her so much between sessions and I really like looking at photos of her.

Anyway, I'm getting off topic! The only slightly self disclosing thing T has said was when she said she was not available for a regular session time on a Friday because she had a "weekend holiday thingy". Usually she would just say she was taking leave but I guess she slipped up . Somehow despite her lack of self disclosure I feel our relationship is the strongest I have ever had with a T. I was upset at first about her firm boundaries (no contact between sessions unless it is for scheduling) but I've come to appreciate her consistency especially after reading some of the stories here!

Also, my T uses a psychodynamic approach so that probably has a lot to do with her lack of self disclosure and strict boundaries.