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Rhapsody said:
I can't really make him leave for he pays all the bills and I cannot afford to live else where.

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Rhapsody, I'm sorry you are going through this. Could you begin to look for a job? Even something part-time? It may give you a feeling of empowerment and independence rather than feeling so dependent on your husband and his decisions. It would give you the opportunity to have a little more financial freedom and who knows this could even improve your relationship.