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Originally Posted by laxer12
Wow, this makes so much sense to me. I just realized that whether my attachment to my therapist is weak or strong at a certain point in time is dependent on how secure I feel with myself and how much I believe I have value. Right now those feelings waver quite a bit so the attachment is pretty strong...
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For me its the opposite. The more secure I am.in myself, the more securely and happily attached I am to my T. I feel comforted, loved and secure. I feel safe asking for what I need and trust she will respond with love. The worse i feel about myself then less confidence I have in my T relationship. I have less faith in her caring, more insecurity, more fear and more pain....the relationship is much more difficult for me then