My t is a blank slate and I like it that way. She is very warm and responds spontaneously, so I don't feel like she is holding back in terms of relating. In a way it makes it easier for me to not know anything about her because then I don't feel like I have to hold back what I say. I had a previous t who I knew too much about which made it really difficult for me (e.g. I knew all about her children who were a similar age to me and she had a great relationship with them and I had a **** relationship with my mother).