My T is definitely not a blank slate when it comes to sharing about himself. I don't know if he realizes how much he shares about his life and sometimes it has been to his detriment. However, when it comes to my neediness and wanting him to define something about me, he refuses. I know he wants me to decide for myself my value in the world and whatever, but sometimes, I just want to know what he thinks about me. I'm not sure if it would be better if he were more blank. In my case, maybe not as it likely would've taken me longer to do the work with my severe trust issues.

#Life is a beautiful lie#