Thread: I feel hopeless
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Old May 02, 2016, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Ruari View Post
Guys, I can't do it.

I am lying in bed, crying, and it's not even 9am. I already messaged a message I said I wouldn't send because overwhelming anxiety got the best of me. I like this guy, but I need to not be anxious all the time or create drama all the time. I'm crying because I'm sad, because I know reality is not what I'm seeing. I just don't think I can do it.
I don't think you're ready for a relationship, yet. What do you think? That's my honest view and I believe this to be evidence of just that. Maybe take all this as a chance to work on yourself? Relationships, as I'm sure you're well aware, are full of challenges that can just be too much to deal with when you're struggling with something like mental health problems.

...but, having read a tidbit from your latest post, it sounds like things somehow got better, which is awesome. Still, my view hasn't quite changed. Either way, I hope things work out.
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