Several ladies have mentioned sex can be messy and yes to some degree it can be, after all it's a physical activity and it can involve getting a little hot under the collar but a lovely way to cool down and clean up afterwards is a shared bath. I have only once had a fling with a younger guy and found it really romantic that after we had sex for the first time he ran a bubble bath and we got in it together and he even washed my hair for me

I know it's a cliche but when you find someone who is right for you, you'll know it. I am definitely not a supermodel and have felt the need to keep myself covered up during sex. But when I have been with the right guy such as the one I mentioned before I had absolutely no insecurities and didn't even flinch when hands ran across my imperfections. If you do have some intimacy issues massage is a great way to desensitize yourself. If there is anything you would like to ask I am always happy to try and help