But this behavior is not the behavior of a friend. Actions speak louder than words. When people show you who they are, believe them. Many people say things because they do not like conflict. The more you attempt to connect with her when her behavior has clearly indicated that she does not want this, the more she will push you away.

I'm really sorry this is happening; I've been through this more times than I can count. The best thing for your feelings and self-respect is to just leave her alone, cultivate your own interests and other friendships.

Good luck.