Look, you've been making posts and threads about the lack of responses you are getting on the dating site.
The simplest and most reasonable solution is to change the age range. If you raise it to 50+ then you are narrowing grown the results that show up for you, but you are increasing the chances of getting a reply.
The girls you met in person were one thing. But when you have such a young age range on your profile, it means you are actively looking do that. If women see what your age range is they are likely to go "whoa cradle robber he won't even look at me" if they are older. Younger will go "whoa cradle robber I don't want to be arm candy".
While large gaps can work, most people don't stray outside of a ten-year range.
As I said I. My first post - just try it. Try changing your age range to 50+. You might be an awesome guy, but you honestly do not have much to offer women my age. You aren't lowering your standards by narrowing your age range to a more average range. If anything.... I'd be lowering my own standards if I was to ever get together with a man my dads age. I'd be cutting off a lot of opportunity and would lose my most healthy years as an adult taking care of someone aging - sure some people are doing amazingly but that isn't the norm.
You're just being wildly unrealistic and you keep defending it. And then feeling defeated that things aren't going your way on the site.
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