My T doesn't do much when I cry. She's starting to remember to offer tissues! She used to not do that (or she'd put them in the middle of the room on the floor???). She'll start out silent if I go silent. When I talk, she talks. There isn't any analyzing about why I'm crying. We just continue to talk about whatever we were talking about. Oh and there's NO touching (accept for our hug at the end of sessions). My ex-T used to touch my arm or leg when I cried. I miss that.