I think we all find life ridiculous at times. I find dating sites ridiculous. I signed up as an ego booster and it just bacame a pain in the arse. Have you researched which sites may be better suited to what YOU want out of life??
I'm 36 and would date a 60 year old man, but he would need to be ne who enjoyed, dinner and shows and was still active. Solitaire and cuppa's?? These women are out there but perhaps you'd have better luck at a community group....? Good luck in love <3