I'm no sure I really get how knowing myself will help me feel more of a human connection with my T - or perhaps you mean I'll feel more of a connection with other people? I'd like to understand it though - if you can explain.

I remember you posting about a conversation you had had with your T about it being 'grim up north', and how she had sent a message when she was away that referred to that. That is the kind of moment of connection I'd like to be able to have with my T.