I confronted him right away. He said no, of course. He said she was a good Christian friend trying to get him to stay with me. But, what would a married man be sneaking HOURS long phone calls to another woman if they weren't at least emotionally involved? I might be naïve but I'm not that niave. After our conversation about this other woman, he told me that without a shadow of a doubt he wanted a divorce...no more therapy, no more ministry.