I think that sounds like what the second described was supposed to happen after I had snapped at her about it. It doesn't do that for me, but I don't have those same concerns (in that my freakedness is not something that really bothers me) so maybe that explains why it is more dismissive than reassuring to me. And it pissed me off to no end that the therapists had not been paying attention to what I told them and thought their doing that would be useful rather than infuriating.