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Originally Posted by unaluna
Sometimes my t expects me to act like a human and treat him like a human. Can you imagine calling him and sharing the good (or bad) news? Would he be like happy and relieved (or sad and sympathetic)? Would YOU be able to handle calling him?
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It's not about capacity to handle a situation, but about boundaries. If I called him every time I had good or bad news that I wanted to share with him, he would be paid a lot more than he is now!
It's not about being human, it's about functional roles and sometimes breaking a boundary or misinterpreting functional roles can have painful consequences like...rejection....or being transferred for not honoring boundaries