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Originally Posted by awkwardlyyours
I'd wait until the next session as well but then also bring up in the session that you had considered contacting him earlier but weren't sure whether to do so given the usual boundaries vs. his new message (I know that can tend to sound passive-aggressive but I do think it can be asked with genuine intent and then you can see how he responds.....if you're so inclined).
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I was thinking the same thing and was also concerned about the passive aggressive side. I think I have a tendency to slip into passive aggressiveness because, I feel, it's ridiculous that I have to pause in a situation like this and ask "is this okay?" especially with a person who is supposedly one of the only people in this world whom I have truly been vulnerable with
