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Originally Posted by seahorse
It sounds like he wants to know how it goes, so I'd tell him tomorrow.
Do you think being scared to contact him comes from your own stuff? Such as, fear of "breaking someone's boundaries" = walking on eggshells. Healthy people are often flexible with things that are not of a serious nature (such as a phone call or email).
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I don't think it's unhealthy necessarily, but when you put it that way...maybe I should bring this up with him?
I'm just confused about how to function in this 'relationship' with my therapist. I feel like if I break a boundary that he'll transfer me. I've already had discussions with him about instances where I push boundaries and after those conversations, I feel rejected, ashamed, and a little crazy. I'm just trying to avoid that here.