Yeah, definitely talk with him about it-it sounds like something you need to work through.

I was like that with a previous T. Scared to death to text him, ask him for something, and anything else. Then one day -i just did and it was no big deal. lol All that fear for nothing.

Must have grown up scared to bother my mother, just didn't remember.

I say go for it. If he doesn't reply it could be uncomfortable for you, the waiting and wondering. That wouldn't necessarily mean it wasn't ok if he didn't write back. Who knows, he could tell you he was glad to have heard from you.

Email is always less risky than texts as it's less intrusive.