I guess I'm not sure what happened last year but this doesn't make any sense. He just said within the last week that he would be willing to go to counseling if what I read was correct from the other thread. That makes him an actual liar. He's not following through on something he agreed to, one session isn't a follow through. If this was really just a Christian friend, then why jump straight to divorce? . If I love my husband and he questions me about a 4 hour phone call, I don't throw out a "let's get divorced, screw it" . I admit that a 4 hour conversation about my marriage with another man is inappropriate and apologize while assuring him I want to work on our marriage, if in fact I want to work on our marriage.

Trust can be rebuilt but not until the persons acknowledges what they are doing is damaging.

I completely fell apart, my husband has had to deal with a half a wife for the last year. I hate myself for that. But he sees that I'm doing everything I possibly can to pull out and I have been but it has been frustratingly slow. But we have built a life together and that means that we don't throw the towel in when our pride is hurt. He loves me in spite of a bad year and knows how much pain I'm in, to simply give up at this point would be cruel.

To the OP:

I hope he changes his mind and decides to work this out, it sounds like you love him and have been having a hard time.

#Life is a beautiful lie#