Is this boyfriend the one with the bipolar Mother that everyone denies is sick???? If this is that boyfriend....you are so much better off without him.....even if you don't understand that now. With everything you went through with his mother....you should have been running & I mean running at a very fast pace away from him when you found out what his mother was like.

When the right relationship is in your life.....you will be able to know it & will stop running. There is no way you can't be with a person & not with him family especially when they aren't even paying attention to how SICK their Mother really is. This is just a fact of relationships, so you are definitely better off without him.....even if you don't know it now.

It hurts when you wanted something so bad.....but when it isn't a good relationship (meaning the whole picture)......it had to end. It is sad that you weren't the one in control of breaking it us....since it puts you in the being left position......but in reality, you are better off without this person.

This is my opinion based on your previous posts about this relationship.
Debbie