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Originally Posted by shattered sanity
i'm feeling seriously hurt.
today's my sister's birthday, and out of the kindness of my heart ordered her a gift
she rang me today.. " just letting you know, i don't want you to wish me happy birthday. i don't want any ****ing gifts from you... remember you're not part of this ****ing family, and goodbye"
sharp kick in the stomach or what.. i know my family don't support me and they don't like me being part of events- christmas, birthdays, easter, what ever else... but to be told that at 6 in the morning... i feel really hurt.
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That's very unpleasant.
What caused such behaviour?
Turning the other cheek
is probably best. Maybe send her the gift with a note saying you hope your relation will change, improve, and though she isn't receptive to your love, you'll continue to give it. Just a short note.
As long as you do what you can. Then don't invest more time into it: it's her, not you. You
can be happy without their love, even on days like these.
Be the loving, kind Stoic. If it's meant to get to you, show them/her it doesn't. Be undeterred.
