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Originally Posted by Icare dixit
That's very unpleasant.
What caused such behaviour?
Turning the other cheek is probably best. Maybe send her the gift with a note saying you hope your relation will change, improve, and though she isn't receptive to your love, you'll continue to give it. Just a short note.
As long as you do what you can. Then don't invest more time into it: it's her, not you. You can be happy without their love, even on days like these.
Be the loving, kind Stoic. If it's meant to get to you, show them/her it doesn't. Be undeterred.
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what you have to remember about my family, is.. that even if i was the last person on planet earth- they wouldn't talk to me, support me, nothing
they've shut me out since i was a child.. only call me now and again to make rude remarks
nothing caused it- they are just mean
sending the gift back today... her loss