I'd still try to be so kind they'll have no reason left, none whatsoever, to be mean. Feelings of guilt will get to them eventually. They might still not want to speak to you, but they'll get what they deserve.
Send the gift. Imagine people asking who's that gift from. Who knows what pack of lies they've told others about you.
Turning the other cheek can destroy empires. It has.
Call it active-non-aggressive.
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Mania kills cells. Brain cells die. Memories become more reduced conceptually, making more efficient use of limited means. Memories shape our reality. Our memories are more or less split in two by abstractions, conceptual reductions. Mood states with memories, concepts, attached. Memories of pain and those of joy. It causes instability, changeability. Fearing that will leave an emptiness between pain and joy and a greater divide.
See Me, Feel Me, Touch Me, Heal Me.
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