sometimes I feel guilty being here. I don't have a mental illness. I come here for the friendships and to offer support when I can. I have had people ask me if I have one because I seem so normal. I don't think that should matter really if I am offering support and friendship. I have been thru alot or some of the stuff others here have gone thru and I feel that helps me to be able to listen and sometimes offer advise or a shoulder to lean on.