you say in one moment in a way she's a great spiritual teacher, but yet nothing in your post implies any of the spiritual maturity or wisdom she has. Only her immaturity.

In all honesty in your writing, and in passing phrases you seem to be trying to make her out to be something more than she is. From what I gather in the post you have great sex that is deep and seems intimate but then everything else... she's just a spoiled princess in my mind that wants what she wants and lashes out or ignores you when she doesn't have it her way.

Of course you haven't elaborated on what you did to get the deep freeze but that kind of response, I would think should only be brought on by the worst offenses I could imagine. From your writing, I don't seem to see that you would be one to offend her in scale to how she is behaving.

I would listen to Trippin and ask her why she does this.

sorry but she seems very immature.