I have been taking a different tack recently. If I have been questioning and debating over whether I should or not I have just been doing it. I am new with this T though so all is up on the air at the moment. I do feel better for getting it all off my chest and once it is done at least I am not stewing over whether to or not but instead I stew over the things you mention, bring a bother or stupid for not being able to do it I'm person. Can't seem to win against myself some days!

If you feel you want to wait then that is probably right for you, if you want to email then that is probably right. IG it is 50/50 then that is a bit more tricky!! Hope it makes it easier whatever you chose.