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Old May 04, 2016, 06:19 PM
musinglizzy musinglizzy is offline
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Who initiated the texts? I know you sent some...but did she start?

My T (T1) fairly recently cut out texts, too. But then she'd text me something. That irritated me, kind of, because it was as if texts were ok if convenient for HER, but not for me. I have had some things go on lately where my T has said "that would have been ok to text me about." Well, she just cut out texts.....so I'm not going to sit there and try to decide what texts are ok to send and what aren't. She didn't cut them out with just me. She said her phone constantly goes off, and she's trying to not be on it as much.... so she asked people to not text, and shut her Email notifications off. On her computer, too. In a way, I feel like I'm "lost in space," it was almost comforting to me before to know that, even if I hadn't heard back yet, she saw something. Or, I always assumed that she did.

Why do you think she'd terminate? Because of the texts? Well, she responded, right? And didn't ask you to stop, right? I think they ought to be ok. It's obvious a text you sent her was an important one....
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