I never had that probelm before now, but I know many women who have. I hear that for some it was--didn't want to spend money on a present for someone I didn't want to date anymore, --for others it was that holidays are times for family and friends and parties where you take your "significant other" and the guy just didn't want to take the girl to those parties. I hate to pick on just the guys, but I don't know of any women who have done that--sometimes guys don't want to take the girl home to mom and dad for the holidays as is expected when "dating" after awhile. Some guys are just insensitive and don't think about how much it hurts around the holidays--I feel sad around the holidays sometimes because of what he did, I tell myself not to let him ruin my holiday, but it is hard. It really hurt alot, and I had to face my family (he was supposed to come to CHristmas dinner)