She is not quite a blank slate but leans in that direction. I believe she makes a purposeful decision to share the things she has shared with me. She does not share just to meet her own needs, or to keep the conversation going, or because she wants to seem relatable.

I do not Google her for a very practical reason: I found out the neighborhood she lives in that way, and now I have to constantly tell myself not to allude to that in conversation because she didn't tell me and I'm not "supposed to know" that (in my mind).

Most of my t's over the years have been of the same temperament; not quite blank slates. It is a good balance for me.

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