Talking to T about how I feel around my sons mother-in-law.
Started talking about how I feel she's doesn't like me. Then how I don't like her. Then saying "but what do I mean about not liking "? About projecting into her vice versa. How I feel like she's won't discuss things ams then because I'm quite forth right and feel that's too much for her and how I like to say it how it is with no game playing. blah blah blah.

T said, You could be talking to your mother there.

I said how? T said, well when you were small, she kept it secret you are adopted until she was forced to tell you.

As T said that, it began to resonate. I coukd picture myself my granddaughters age, feeling this 'lie' this unwilling to discuss and feel I want liked very much.

T nodded yes. I got it then. My grandaughter was triggering my experiences at her age and get other grandmother is become my mother.

I love break through like that.