Hello RomanSunburn,

Thanks for your comment.

I also told him that this looked like sexual harassment to me. I even asked him what will he do if they report him? But he said that I'm just over-thinking this and this was just a joke and that he tried to be nice to them so they can help him out. I told him that there are many different ways he could be polite and friendly and he just chose the worst one possible.

Apparently, the girls liked his "jokes" and found him really funny. Also, one of them has no morals and is well known for that so she could even think that this might go somewhere... I don't know. It seemed like I was the only one person in this equation that thought this was inappropriate.

I was jealous for about 2 months (after finding out about those messages). I was very miserable...
But then I realised that's not normal or healthy and I have to make a decision if I want to be with him or not. And because I love him so much I decided to stay and therefore, I had to trust him again. I told him about it. He said he is really happy about my decision and he will do everything to make me happy. And really... everything was great. Until now... when I found out about other messages. Although, I know he sent them when our relationship was in a bad place...

I don't know. I don't know what to think anymore.