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Old May 05, 2016, 12:00 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
She is 41 and you find her immaturity attractive? I'd focus on why you find it attractive rather than why she dues what she does. We can only control ourselves

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Perhaps because I am immature? I prefer "youthful." I guess that's the thing here. I see a lot of myself in her. It's like if I hate on her. I hate on myself.

I agree, we can only control ourselves. And if I choose not to judge her or demand she act a certain way. I'm ok. But when I go outward to blame her for how I feel. There lies the challenge. Does that make sense?