I got a misdirected very questionable email (no pics) from my t around the time anthony weiner sent the famous pics of his weiner. Every time Weiner popped up in the news, which was like constantly that whole freaking summer, looking back on it now, i felt as if my email situation had been publicly exposed. I dont know who was more embarrassed, me or t.

That was when i found PC. I also consulted with a male MD acquaintance, my former male t/pdoc, and my bff who is a MH counselor. I have had so many ts during my life i really didnt want to change again. T was single at the time, he was certainly free to do whatever he wanted, regardless of my transference!

Before this time, i would deal with conflict the way my parents did - denial, or "my way or the highway". Accepting another person as not being perfect was not in my playbook. I hope this helps explain some of my out of step posts here.