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Originally Posted by seahorse
My T accidentally texted me "love and kisses for my sweetie"..or something like that. Which made me feel jealous of his wife. I responded "i wish" and he apologized.
I'm not sure why some think it is a big deal if not done intentionally. Most everyone has called the wrong person, sent an email to the wrong address, etc., by accident at one point or another.
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Its not "think", its "feel". Logically we can understand it as you say, but emotionally, because of defenses being down or whatever, because of the nature of a reparative therapeutic relationship, such an incident can incite fantasies that then can or need to be processed in therapy. imo, ime.