I'm going on 3+ years of severe depression and besides losing interest in past activities/hobbies, I also have no real feeling of love for my wife of 24 years. I care very much for her as a person and someone who's putting up with this madness. I just don't know if my lack of feelings of love are the depression talking - or have I truly lost feelings for her? Can't decide, so we go on living our lives more as companions than spouses. I'd hate to make a wrong decision, so I do nothing.