My bonus kid is having similar feelings, DF. Her dad is in ICU on life support for the last 3 days. She went to visit and her distant relatives were crying and sad, and she feels nothing. She thinks she's shut herself off from feeling anything for so long she's forgotten how. She asked me if that was normal. I asked her if we'd met? I'm the farthest from normal in our house!

Feelings are scary.

(((DF))) hopefully it resolves soon.