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Originally Posted by divine1966
If it's just thinking about something obsessively I don't see why you need to confess. Thoughts are private. On the other hand if thinking of something prevents you from enjoying sex then go talk to your t? Kind of in light of how to break OCD pattern. I am not sure why it's something to discuss with MC? Now if it something really bad like someone would get harmed then do talk to your t ASAP
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Oh, it's nothing that would harm anyone. Not that kind of intrusive thoughts. It's more about confessing to H than to MC, to clarify (telling MC would jsut be like having his support while telling H, or something like that). Like I have these hangups that are affecting our marriage, and they'd probably be affecting me no matter who I was married to. So maybe he'd (H) understand better how it really is me, not him.
And then there's just the part of me that hates feeling like I have to hide stuff about myself. Goes back to to my mom, who wanted to keep anything negative quiet.
And I think it's like, I need to know that H would accept this part of me, too...