I started seeing someone a couple of months ago. Really like him. I have a 13 year old son and he has two sons in early 20s. His older son has got into some legal trouble. Things were going pretty good then bam this hit him hard. He has really been stressed and drinking alot I think. He still calls me but he said he is not himself right now and let him sort this all out. We haven't seen each other in 3 weeks. I'm trying to be patient and he still calls me but I miss him and I feel lonely. I'm pitiful I know