Depression is such a killer of relationships in my opinion. It takes a very strong and understanding partner to support the sufferer through it.I am so fortunate to have a BF who not only recognizes the signs of a bout coming on but is also proactive about it. My last visit to the hospital came at his gentle suggestion. When I was out he helped me a great deal, understanding I wasn't immediately fixed. He helped me reintigrate back into the real world.

With that said though my previous two longterm relationships (24yrs total) I did not have such understanding spouses. I ached to be 'heard' and understood. I questioned the relationships too, wondering if it was really worth it. I just didn't have the energy to react or act. Interestingly though, it was during periods of mania that I had the gumption to act and literally ran away.